September 11, 2011

Letters To A Young Poet

"No one can advise or help you - no one. There is only one thing you should do. Go into yourself. Find out the reason that commands you to write; see whether it has spread its roots into the very depths of your heart; confess to yourself whether you would have to die if you were forbidden to write. This most of all: ask yourself in the most silent hour of your night: must I write?" [letter I]


"If what is near you is far away, then your vastness is already among the stars and is very great; be happy about your growth, in which of course you can't take anyone with you, and be gentle with those who stay behind; be confident and calm in front of them and don't torment them with your doubts and don't frighten them with your faith or joy, which they wouldn't be able to comprehend. Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn't necessarily have to alter when you yourself change again and again; when you see them, love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust. Avoid providing material for the drama, that is always stretched tight between parent and children; it uses up much of the children's strength and wastes the love of the elders, which acts and warms even if it doesn't comprehend Don't ask for any advice from them and don't expect any understanding; but believe in a love that is being stored up for you like an inheritance, and have faith that in this love there is a strength and a blessing so large that you can travel as far as you wish without having to step outside it." [letter IV]


-Rilke

July 26, 2011

Good Concert Wear - Brandy Melville

cheap, good sweaters and large crop tops. stock up for lollapalooza...




http://brandymelvilleusa.com/

Norman Rockwell - Best of








Best First and Last

  1. "They were frantic, calling out to him, but they were dead, as dead as the ancient dead, and he was alive, he was needed at home, it was a no-brainer, no one could possibly blame him for this one, and making a low sound of despair in his throat he kicked off his loafers and threw his long ugly body out across the water."-“The Falls,” George Saunders (From Pastoralia)
  2. “What could be worse than having to be seen resorting to your own life.” -“Sororally” by Gary Lutz (from Stories in the Worst Way)
  3. “We were fractious and overpaid. Our mornings lacked promise. At least those of us who smoked had something to look forward to at ten-fifteen.”-Then We Came to the End by Joshua Ferris
  4. “She brought him what she had promised and they did it in his car, on the top floor of the car park, looking down onto the black flat roofs of buildings, and she said, or she thought she said, ‘I like your skin,’ when what she really liked was the color of her father’s skin, the mottled white of his arms, and the clay color at the roots of the hairs along his arms.”-“You Drive” by Christine Schutt (from Nightwork)
  5. “Discuss the regulars. They sit in a line like ugly, huddled birds, eyes wet with alcohol.”-Ablutions by Patrick Dewitt
  6. “As a girl, Becca hadn’t resembled Drew Barrymore at all. But now, at twenty-five, especially after gaining a few pounds, she had grown used to comments from bartenders and store clerks, and the half-startled looks from passerby.”-Still Holding by Bruce Wagner
  7. “I saw my ex-husband in the street. I was sitting on the steps of the new library. Hello, my life, I said. We had once been married for twenty-seven years, so I felt justified. He said, What? What life? No life of mine.” -“Wants” by Grace Paley (from Enormous Changes at the Last Minute)
  8. “A screaming comes across the sky.” -Gravity’s Rainbow by Thomas Pynchon


read more:
http://flavorwire.com/75066/first-impressions-our-30-favorite-opening-lines-in-literature

http://flavorwire.com/167171/famous-last-words-our-20-favorite-final-lines-in-literature

July 19, 2011

Mark Twain's Advice to Little Girls











http://jezebel.com/5822343/mark-twains-illustrated-advice-to-little-girls/gallery/1

June 27, 2011

"Besides, to give it a name would have meant, if not to judge it, at least to define it, to classify it as one of life's familiar commonplace items, whereas Hans Castorp was thoroughly convinced at some subconscious level that anything so personal should always be shielded from definition and classification."


The Magic Mountain - Thomas Mann

May 4, 2011

Happy Birthday Audrey Hepburn!





Her birthday was May 4, 1929


Watch the original Hollywood movie trailers of some of her most famous work: Roman Holiday (1953), Sabrina (1954), Funny Face (1957), and Breakfast at Tiffany's (1961) at Nylon Magazine's website: http://www.nylonmag.com/?section=article&parid=6267


Watch the dance in Funny Face that became a famous GAP commercial:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3oxqmKGM5g


Do your makeup like Audrey: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WHVTYay--3E&feature=fvwrel

New Yorker Greats

Met Ball 2011 - Best Dresses

The Met Ball this year celebrated Alexander McQueen. Not wearing him was a shame - both because of the request to honor his legacy and the astounding beauty of his creations. Here are some of my favorite dresses:








May 1, 2011

Des Maillots de Bain






Anthropologie

Midday Treat

Anthropologie Outfit
http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/catalog/category.jsp?id=CLOTHES-SPRING-MIDDAY&navAction=jump

April 25, 2011

Insomnia Cookies

405 Amsterdam Avenue (Cross Streets: 79th and Amsterdam)
New York, NY

Must Try's for Late-Night Cookie Cravings:
White Chocolate Macadamia
Chocolate Chunk
Double Chocolate Chunk 

Bond St Sushi

6 Bond St
New York, NY
What we ate: 
Sake Steamed Cod-Seasonal Vegetables & Fermented Black Bean Broth
Broiled Sea Bass-Marinated in Saikyo Miso Sauce (Recommended not well-done)
New York Strip Steak-Potato Dice, Caramelized Shallot Teriyaki, 12 yr Balsamic
Arugula Crispy Potato Roll-Carrot Ginger Dressing
Edadame-First serving on the house, $7 for each additional order

Photographs of Philip Jones Griffiths